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Contact your husband and let him know that, in the Army, he has a legal obligation to support you. One that his commander can enforce through Army Regulation 608-99, which requires that he pay you the -non-locality BAH rate (sometimes called BAH II) if you are not living in the government housing.
Then let him know that you have the right to contact his commander and tell that commander that your husband is not supporting you....oh, and he also committed adultery (a crime in the military).
If your husband doesn't wise up, contact his commander.