Are you sure its not a QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order)
...never heard of a QMO...but I suspect its the same thing as a QDRO if the court is using that language.
A QDRO is required by the court to determine the exact percentage of a pension plan like military retirement
that will be given to the former spouse. Your description is a bit odd, since typically, when a court calls for a QDRO, they do not give a percentage up front...for example, if the parties are divorcing but the service member has not yet retired, the court may demand that at the time of retirement, a QDRO be done to calculate the proper percentage for each side.
A court would not require a QDRO if it had already determined the percentage that the former spouse would receive.
Now, if the divorce decree provides you a specific percentage of the Majors pay AND the Major is retired...then all you need is a certified true copy of the divorce decree (the clerk of the court can give you this) and send it to DFAS and they will begin to pay you your percentage.
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