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I have been in a relationship with a guy for 3.5 years and I…

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I have been in a relationship with a guy for 3.5 years and I feel he is being manipulative but I can’t tell

Doctor's Assistant: Have you seen a doctor about this yet? What medications are you taking?

Not on meds

Doctor's Assistant: Anything else in your medical history you think the psychologist should know?

No I have not

Submitted: 2 months ago.Category: Mental Health
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Hello. I'm Rafael and I am here to support you.

Could you please tell me more about this person, his manipulative behavior and core issues for the past 3.5 years?

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