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Hi this is a question about sex from a married woman regarding my husband and i, can you help? thanks

Doctor's Assistant: Is this your first time reaching out for information about this? In general, how would you describe your overall health?

Yes first time. Overall healh is good for both parites

Doctor's Assistant: Anything else in your medical history you think the doctor should know?

No, mid 40's. been together est 8 years, healthy

Submitted: 4 months ago.Category: Mental Health
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Mental Health Professional: Dr. Shah, Doctor replied 4 months ago
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Mental Health Professional: Dr. Shah, Doctor replied 4 months ago

What is your question? Do you have any symptoms?

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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
No symptoms, just I (woman) do not want to have sex much anymore with my husband as he wants me to have sex with other men so he can watch, I have said yes on several occasions, about 4 times a year, sometimes more so he would not leave. He love mes, however even when it is just him and I, he always talks about having another man there to "f**k me". He says it is because he finds me so attractive and arousing, I am sick of it to the point I find it hard to enjoy our sex life.
I am finding it harder and harder to focus when we are having sex so he gets distressed and then stops and then gets angry and walks away. He told me this morning we are done with sex and there will be no more. What do i do?
Customer reply replied 4 months ago
please email i cannot afford a call, neither money nor lack of privacy
Mental Health Professional: Dr. Shah, Doctor replied 4 months ago

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This is a relationship/psychology question. I will have to opt out so that someone experienced in this area can assist your further. Please be online, someone will be with you shortly.

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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
thanks
Mental Health Professional: Patience, Therapist replied 4 months ago
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Hello- It's very good that you are reaching out about this issue! Please tell me when you are online again so that we might discuss this further.

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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
online now, thanks
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