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My fiancé responds in anger every time I say something

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My fiancé responds in anger every time I say something hateful or accusing that makes her madd she never ever takes responsibility for her faults in an argument or a fight or disagreement or says she sorry if she’s wrong she always makes me feel like it’s 100 percent my fault but if I say it takes two it’s not just a one sided deal we both did things wrong in the situation she’ll agree until you tell her what she was wrong for then she justifys her actions or behavior Has to be in control will not have emotional talks is not soft at all e erythings on her terms. But won’t respond in anger to other people even people she hates can not take the pressure of someone needing something emotional from her rather it be approveall reassurance whatever it maybe. very manipulative to will twist an turn what’s said to favor her or help her point.

Doctor's Assistant: How long have you been dealing with this? Any other symptoms?

What is her deal?

Doctor's Assistant: Anything else in your medical history you think the psychologist should know?

Hu? I didn’t talk about me just my fiancé did you even read what I wrote or is this a computer response?

Submitted: 6 months ago.Category: Mental Health
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Mental Health Professional: John-Michaels, Counselor (LPC) replied 6 months ago
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Hello, my name is***** fact is no one ever wins an argument. Actually, if winning is your goal, you have already lost. Here are a few principles that If present in your argument, you will both win.How to Fight like Adults:1. Remain Calm - Absolutely no name calling, yelling, or threatening. These only cause greater conflict.2. Make Conpromose your goal - Make it your priority in arguing to discover how to make your partner happy without completely surrendering your own needs.3. Celebrate your Success with an Embrace. Make arguing more enjoyable by spicing up your completion.Remember these principles and let them guide your disagreement. If you do your arguing will be a positive to your relationshipDoes that make sense?
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Mental Health Professional: John-Michaels, Counselor (LPC) replied 6 months ago
That was “Compromise”.
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Mental Health Professional: John-Michaels, Counselor (LPC) replied 6 months ago
I hope I have been helpful to you. Would you please do me a favor and write my response with the five star rating. This will help me to get credit for my services to you.
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Customer reply replied 6 months ago
The argueing isn’t the question I was asking there’s a personality disorder who act like this what is it called?
Mental Health Professional: John-Michaels, Counselor (LPC) replied 6 months ago
Off the top of my head I would say borderline personality disorder. Does that make sense?
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Customer reply replied 6 months ago
What type of personality disorder?
Mental Health Professional: John-Michaels, Counselor (LPC) replied 6 months ago
Borderline. That is where the world rotates around the individual. They are very demanding and impatient, and manipulative.
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