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Hi I am 37 years old and have been threw alot of events in my life from birth. I grew up in an abusive alcoholic home, was sexually abused as a young child. Have been married three times, have burried a set of twins, have absoulutly no sexual desire what so ever. Am married to a selfless wonderful man now with 2 children of my own and 2 step children. I work a 12 hr swing shift schedule. I havw absoultly no energy and i will give everything i have to my children but when it comes to showing him love or sexually i push him away. I just wanna be happy. There is nor just one thing i can pinpoint in my life that i can think of that would cause me to just exist and not live so i need help. I dont want to lose him or my family.

Doctor's Assistant: How is your mood? Are you experiencing regular sleep disturbances (e.g. trouble falling asleep, waking up early)?

I have days where i am absolutly exhausted i could sleep 12 hrs a day. I have no trouble sleeping. I get into moods where i will interact with the kifs but when it comes to my husband i just want to be left alone.

Doctor's Assistant: Anything else in your medical history you think the Psychologist should know?

Have done the hormone replacement therapy and it seemed like it did help my energy and moods and sexual drive but as i recall dr telling me my labs were ok before treatment. Am on cymbalta for anger issues.

Submitted: 8 months ago.Category: Mental Health
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T​hat is really tough. I hate to hear that you have had such a hard life. I think anybody would find it difficult to get past such hard times. There is hope though. We just need to find the light at the end of your tunnel.

Can you tell me more about your situation? You have been through so much. What has kept you going? Do you work outside the home? What would you like to do with your life?

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