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Hi. I'm a healing co-dependent...
Hi. I'm a healing co-dependent out of a narcissistic relationship which my daughter grew up around. She's 40, having marital problems with her, in my opinion, narcissistic husband. She has been 'pulling away" from me ever since she married him in very confusing ways. Could he be the problem? Granted I wasn't a perfect mom because I was unknowingly then dealing with a crazy narc then myself. I have really expressed my thoughts about her husband's inexcusable behavior recently, and now she refuses to communicate or let me visit my 3 granddaughters. Help? Did I do the wrong thing by being too honest?
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Hello and thank you for using JustAnswer. May I ask, why do you believe your son in law has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)? And is it possible you may be projecting your own issues with your previous relationship onto your daughter's marriage?

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