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I am in a term, 15 year relationship with y wonder fill wife

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I am in a long...
I am in a long term, 15 year relationship with y wonder fill wife and father of two children and have recently come to realize that I have bern invalidating and using gas lighting as a way to make her,or at leat imply that her feelings arn'et real. i need some direction to finding a class t re-enforce and learn new commincstion techniques to not fo this and find better ways to communicate my feelings without undermining her reality.
thank you got your advice dmd direction.
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Mental Health Professional: Dr. Z, Psychologist replied 2 years ago
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Hello, I would be happy to help you find a good therapist that can direct you into preventing this "gas-lighting" behavior, but first I would need to know what city and state you live in?
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Geneva, fl 3732
Mental Health Professional: Dr. Z, Psychologist replied 2 years ago
Thank you for that information. So these are effective therapists that specialize in relationships and the issue of "gas-lighting" as well, so one of them should be very effective for you and your overall treatment.
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I hope this answers your questions and gives you some guidance on this issue. Please let me know if you have any questions or concerns as I am happy to assist and support you regarding this issue.
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Hello, I was checking in to see if you have any further questions or concerns that you would like me to address on this issue?
*****If you are satisfied with my answer, I would truly appreciate it if you can take the time and provide me with a positive rating so that I can receive credit for helping you. Thank you
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