thanks for your reply. here are the further details you requested:
1.She often says similar things to guilt trip, such as "I am just going to move away", on countless occasions. I am certain she is just being overdramtic for the effect. Yes, space would be a good thing! however, since she sent me this via text (ugh so impersonal), I feel like I must answer something, to acknowledge her message. If I don't acknowledge, she will accuse me of not caring, and if I do she will use what I say to add
2. My mother has been acting like this for years and years, at least since I was a teenager. If I don't agree with her, or do things her way, she guilt trips me. For example my parents are divorced, and my mother always wants me to spend christmas with her, if not, she gets upset and states comments like how she will just move away. And many other similar instances.
3.I did mean she should see a psychologist/ therapist, but when speaking to her I believe I said she should try and consult someone who could help her manage her stress
better. I knew using psychologist / therapist would really get her up. How she reacted, well she was not open to the idea and clammed up. She called me abusive and cold and mentionned how could I say that to her, she is my mother not some friend or colleague (not really pertinent but that's what she said).