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Experience:  Clinical Psychology PhD, Licensed Professional Counselor with experience in marriage/family, teens and child psychology.
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Two of my older sisters are toxic and have been in the same

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two of my older sisters are toxic and have been in the same type of emotional ruts for the past 15/20 years respectively. I can't take anymore of hearing how miserable their lives have turned out - I have my own issues (divorced and money woes); however, I have learned to work thru them and that I am responsible for my own life. My 2 sisters act like prima donnas/know-it-alls and can't listen to people when they are receiving concrete advice.
How can I just ignore them and keep myself sane and happy?
Submitted: 2 years ago.
Category: Mental Health
Expert:  Dr. Z replied 2 years ago.
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Hello, I believe I may be able to help you with your concern. I am sorry that you are having this issue with your sisters I can understand how distressing this can possibly be for you. I would like to ask you a couple questions to get a better idea of your situation, so that I can better assist you.
1. Have you tried just breaking off all contact with your sisters since they are toxic? If so, what happened as a result?
2. When you respond to them directly (e.g. "pull up their pants by the waste (sic) side and grow the heck up) how did they respond?