My new husband has LT 108 is his number, normal is 110+, he doesn't handle any business in bedroom and has no interest. If I try to fondle him he will block my hand, he pulls himself in his sleep, and I have caught him with his hands in pants, he was unaware he does it, he says he likes the sensation.
He has had insomia for years, and can't sleep through the night, very mild sleep apnea we had checked out, the doctor sent him to a therapist for insomia he didn't go.
He comes home on time, no affair at least not physical with his ed. I think he is voyeur as he looks online at porn but denies it, and browses online dating site where we met and denies it.
He doesn't stay hard for long, we tried cialis couple of times were good, he would prefer natural. He is 50 excellent health doctor says and he hasn't had sex in past 8 years due to inability to stay hard so he avoided women and dating. We were in a long distance relations this past March 2012 and marrried July 2012 and now are not doing anything. I'm 52 and trhiving when I have my hormonal cream. His mother was abusive, father left at 10, she had many boyfriends while his father was overseas, and the kids had to fend for themselves, never got much attention, basically raised themselves no drugs, no smoke, no drink, stays to himself, doesn't hangout with men, texts can't see them but suspect he is texting others, don't know. if he is gay and fighting it for years maybe a strong maybe as his own mother called him on it, provides well, speaks well , works hard. Dr. is putting him on hormonal cream, interesting my needs aren't being met, I'm sympathetic to issue and it is a hard issue to discuss when we do, why wouldn't a husband satisfy his wife in anyway? He moved me acrosss the country west coast to east coast, looks like another love tko my first marriage. He did tell me of his ED I thought it was a passing thing for his age and thought viagra or cialis will take care of it. Unknowingly celibate wife heading to divorce court.***@******.*** for your response. He or I have no kids.
He goes to work and home, some exercise but not really living life, I'm over the top and in a new area trying to get settled the last 3 months. He is ashamed he can't do much, his first wife lasted 4 months and locked him out of home 1996, he went into 5 yr depression, then I come along happy go lucky me, we love each other and have differences it's how you choose to handle them. Waiting for your reply