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Bill, LCSW, Consultant, Expert Witness
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Experience:  35 years treating individuals, couples, families with mental health and substance abuse prob's
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How does someone retain ones own power in a relationship.

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How does someone retain ones own power in a relationship.
Hello- Thank you for asking the question. I have over 30 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families & am happy to reply.

I am happy to help you with this.

Defining your power is another way (as you elude) to defining yourself in relationship to another person.....whomever they are and being able to articulate this in clear and definitive terms so that you preserve your emotional well being and the other understands your limits and you meaning of who you are.

Read the following link which explains this process in great detail and use it as a guide in defining yourself (or your power and boundaries) in a relationship.

You will find the :

Formula for emotionally honest communication

which is the blueprint to use to learn and teach you how to retain "power" or your sense of self in a relationship.


If you have additional questions, feel free to ask- I am happy to help.


Otherwise, I wish you the very best.




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