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I just found out my husband is constantly on dating site and

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i just found out my husband is constantly on dating site and answering wanted adds for shemales! he says hes not gay jus curious and wants to stop before he truley loses me is there help for people like that
Thank you for writing in JustAnswer.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation.
Let me ask you a few questions first.
What did he respond to you when you talked to him about this?
Did he tell you he has some problem and need help from his doctor?
Is there a specific question I can assist you with?
Please let me know by clicking on “Reply” and I will then craft my response.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Warm Regards,
Customer: replied 4 years ago.

he got mad because i went in his email. then he said hed never actually met with any of them. he then said hes always been into networking and he feels he cant be trusted when i comes to the internet

Hi there,
Thank you for your reply.
It sounds like he is making an excuse for his wrongdoing.
Did he apologize you for his wrongdoing?
Also, did he cancel (is he going to cancel) his account on the site?
Customer: replied 4 years ago.

yes hes done all of that but i dont understand why he was doing it in the first place. is he gay?

Is he communicating with males only?
Customer: replied 4 years ago.
Majority trannys
Hi there,
Thank you for your reply.
Okay. So, he has been communicating with transsexual men on the dating site. He may be interested in meeting these men. He may be gay.
There is a possibility that he may be questioning or exploring his sexual identity.
As his wife, you may ask him if he is interested in meeting these men.
Are you and your husband having intimacy lately?
If you are worried about his behavior, marriage counseling may be an option.
Customer: replied 4 years ago.
I asked he said he's not interested, hes not gay jus was curious about why these men thought they were women.he said he just wanted to see what they had to say,if they were women like????Idk ...our sexual life is great. That's why I don't understand.
Hi there,
Thank you for your reply.
Okay. So, he said he wasn't gay. He was just curious about them.
I think he may have sexual issues, though he doesn't want to discuss with you.
I wonder if he cancels his account on the dating site.
That's his problem.
I would encourage him to see a licensed psychotherapist if he thinks he has some issues such addiction or obsession with these transsexual men.
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