How JustAnswer Works:
  • Ask an Expert
    Experts are full of valuable knowledge and are ready to help with any question. Credentials confirmed by a Fortune 500 verification firm.
  • Get a Professional Answer
    Via email, text message, or notification as you wait on our site.
    Ask follow up questions if you need to.
  • 100% Satisfaction Guarantee
    Rate the answer you receive.
Ask psychlady Your Own Question
psychlady, Therapist
Category: Mental Health
Satisfied Customers: 6893
Experience:  Psychotherapist specializing in the treatment of a variety of mental health issues.
Type Your Mental Health Question Here...
psychlady is online now
A new question is answered every 9 seconds

Why do I want to have sex with my 26 year old step-daughter?

This answer was rated:

Why do I want to have sex with my 26 year old step-daughter? I'm 20 years older than she, but it feels like I am obssesed with her. All I think about is what it would be like to have sex with her. My wife and stepdaughter know nothing of this, but I can't stop thinking about her. This fantasy has been going on in my head for years.

As you know this is not appropriate which is why you are reaching out. It is very dangerous to entertain even fantasies because this leads to fulfilling this fantasy. There could be several reasons for why you fantasize about her. One may be that you don't have the genetic connection and have become physically aroused by her. This is at times exacerbated by the fact that she trusts you and sees you as a father figure. This is then perverted into this fantasy that has a life of itself. It may be the case that you have a sexual addiction and she is just the focus of this addiction. Either way you need to find a therapist in your area so that you can process this before you act on your perversions. You can find a therapist in any area by checking the site for the American Psychological Association. You can ask a therapist if she has training in sexual addiction. In addition there are 12 step meetings in most states for sexual addiction - Sex Addicts Anonymous. When you ask for help you will be able to share the secrecy of your thoughts without fearing the embarrassment. You can even participate in therapy online by Googling online therapy. This may be taking on a life of its own but it doesn't have to. Be proactive and find out why you have focused on her.

Please provide positive feedback so I am compensated

psychlady and other Mental Health Specialists are ready to help you