JACUSTOMER-3wxg6ws3- : This is certainly a serious issue. I wonder what made you ask her the question.
JACUSTOMER-3wxg6ws3- : There are many reasons a dad might touch the private areas of a 3 year old. Was helping her in the bath or with toileting? Did he tell her it was a secret and not to tell anyone? Did she have a funny feeling when he touched her? Customer:
I am the only one who gives her a bath and she goes to the bathroom by herself. I also asked her if she daddy told her a secret and she said no
JACUSTOMER-3wxg6ws3- : What made you ask her about it?
JACUSTOMER-3wxg6ws3- : Is this sometthing you worry about and ask her about?
I asked her because I worry about her being around a man alone. My fiance watches her and our son while im at work. I also want her to know that its ok to tell me if someone hurts her
JACUSTOMER-3wxg6ws3- : Is this the first time she's ever said anything like that?
No i have asked her before and she said the same thing
JACUSTOMER-3wxg6ws3- : It can be very hard to sort out with a 3 year old.
JACUSTOMER-3wxg6ws3- : They aren't firmly grounded in reality. When she's laughing and being kind of silly about it, it's hard to tell what really happened.
JACUSTOMER-3wxg6ws3- : You could have a therapist or specialist in child sexual abuse talk to her.
Is there anything else i can look for or ask her in specific
she also had a check up a couple weeks ago and her doctor said she was ok
her doctor said she was a normal healthy happy 3 year old
JACUSTOMER-3wxg6ws3- : It might be best to keep your ears and ears open but not press.
JACUSTOMER-3wxg6ws3- : Is that at all helpful to you?
JACUSTOMER-3wxg6ws3- : If I haven't fully answered your question, please let me know what you're thinking, and I'll try to respond.