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I always wanted to wait till marrige to have sex. I was

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I always wanted to wait till marrige to have sex. I was dating a girl and she forced me into it. I felt it was wrong and didnt enjoy nor did i finish. I didnt even get excited about it. My question is does that mean im gay?
Submitted: 5 years ago.
Category: Mental Health
Expert:  Brad The Therapist replied 5 years ago.
Brad :

Thank you for your question. Before answering you post, I have a few questions. First, Are you attracted to men? Do you wish to have sexual and emotional intimacy with men? When you masturbate, what do you masturbate to?


I have never really been attratced to men before my whole life. I have masturbated before and had a gay thought but did not think much of it. Usually when i masturbate its to girl on girl or girl stripping. I have never looked into gay porn before.

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