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I have read your post a couple of times and I am so sorry you are in such tough situation. You have mentioned at least two issues and maybe three....
Your specific question is if you should stay with your husband... well...
You mentioned some business issues that have not gone well - that is no reason to leave him....
You mentioned that you have lost some intimacy - that is something to work on...
However, if he is sneaking off to see this other woman that could be a very big issue. Honesty and trust are what you need here.
With this final issue - it could be something to work on if you wanted to save your marriage - however, it sounds like you have been down this road before and you want no part of it again -
If he is seeing another woman, or you suspect he is - you should confront him, get the truth and then make your decision.
Based on what you have stated, it seems that he is going to see her (planning a trip behind your back, losing weight, etc.) so confront him - hopefully get the truth and make your decision.
You are entitled to pursue happiness just like everyone else and 58 is not too old to have happiness in your life.
Again, I am so sorry you are in this situation, but I hope I have helped answer your question in a succinct and direct manner.
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Thank you for your help. I understand there is no simple answer to my question. Unfortunately we have been down this road before and he will simply lie to my face, although I will surely ask him anyway.