what is the prognosis of someone diagnosed with borderline personality disorder? how can i get a proper diagnosis for my boyfriend and what test is administered. I'm feeling hopeless about this condition because it affects our relationship and he's putting me through hell. he realizes he has issues and just started working with a very good therapist who is clueless about his condition . as is to be expected because he's secretive about himself and just deals with facts and circumstances to deal with his problems. if she was aware of BPD I'm certain he would get better help. any advice on how i can better help him. at this point I'm fed up and need help myself. is there any way for you to refer to the discussion and do you have access to the discussion i had with PennyrayasMFT last night at 10;45 pm.at just answer so you get an idea of whats going on?
telling him if we work together as a team to solve our problems and he's not mean/verballyabusive we won't need to end relationship. last time i ended our relationship he went on a 2 month drinking binge that almost killed him.he lies still even though he's promised not to and can't seem to control his anger though he's promised to