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Looking to find ways to cure PE .. ???

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Looking to find ways to cure PE .. ???
Submitted: 6 years ago.Category: Mental Health
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Mental Health Professional: Dr. Shirley Schaye, Doctor replied 6 years ago
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Thank you for contacting Just Answer. To be able to answer your question please tell me what PE is.
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Mental Health Professional: Dr. Shirley Schaye, Doctor replied 6 years ago
Has this been happening for a long time or just recently? I think you should make an appointment with an urologist. It is always important to rule out organicity before one starts looking at psychological reasons for a symptom. If the urologist sees nothing physical that is going on, then we will need to explore what is going on psychologically.
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Customer reply replied 6 years ago

This has been long term and I have talked to my uroligist and regular doc. They simply say it's in my head .. ?!?! When drinking I have no issues but who does'nt , that just numbs your senses. I have read that this can sometimes be a physical issue , is this true . ??

Mental Health Professional: Dr. Shirley Schaye, Doctor replied 6 years ago
Sometimes it's physical but sometimes it could be psychological. I would suggest since your doctors say there is nothing physical that you seek out a therapist to dig in there and help you sort out why this is happening.
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Customer reply replied 6 years ago

I appreciate your patience with this .. I have thought about seeing if there is a sexual surrogate in my area , I live in Warren Mi in the Metro Detroit area. I've looked some but have had no luck as of yet. But if physical what would that consist of .. ??

Mental Health Professional: Dr. Shirley Schaye, Doctor replied 6 years ago
Well your doctors told you that it wasn't physical ---- could be a number of things but wouldn't know. Haven't done any diagnostic tests on you. So have no idea if it was hormonal or something else. Can't examine someone online. But, as I said, both your doctors said it wasn't physical so you need help from a therapist.
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Mental Health Professional: Dr. Shirley Schaye, Doctor replied 6 years ago
Here is a list of therapists with postgraduate education. They would have the necessary training to dig deep and find out what psychological issue is getting in your way since both your doctors have already ruled out anything physical.

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