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When I found out my boyfriend was married, he divorced his

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When I found out my boyfriend was married, he divorced his wife; and now he wants me to marry him. Should I?
Submitted: 6 years ago.
Category: Mental Health
Expert:  Arundhati replied 6 years ago.

Thank you for writing in to Just Answer.

The situation you describe is no doubt a challenging one. The big question is whether you can trust this person enough to settle into a marriage with him.

The fact that he lied to you about his marriage and other things makes it even more difficult.

It is possible that he has changed but the best way to verify this would be to wait and give this relationship some time before agreeing to marry. I would recommend that you speak to him about needing time more time and see how things go. If you feel that you can trust him, and that he indeed has changed for the good now, then you can proceed to discuss marriage.

I hope this was helpful.

Please do let me know if you have any questions/thoughts etc.

Kind Regards,

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