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Dr. Bonnie, Psychologist and RN
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Experience:  35 years experience counseling children and families
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Ok so i always worry about life ,money ,etc i suck at

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ok so i always worry about life ,money ,etc i suck at communication i used to be really attractive to women but i was an ass now im single not so hot and think i wont have a healthy relationship oh my credit is bad as well but i dont want a woman that only sees me as a member and a wallet eather so what do i do
Submitted: 7 years ago.
Category: Mental Health
Expert:  Dr. Bonnie replied 7 years ago.
Let's see...problems
1. anxiety
2. poor communication skills
3. feeling like a failure at relationships
4. financial problems
5. not as fit as I used to be.

Goal: find a partner who accepts me for who I am (problems and all).

The first 3 problems can be tackled in individual psychotherapy. Go to or to find one. I am assuming, of course, that you have an insurance that will cover this. The 4th problem can be worked on with a financial advisor and 5th with a fitness plan. You will be putting a team together who will help you get out of this slump. Then, the woman will be knocking your door down. :-)

Good luck!