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Good evening to whom this may this concern. My name is ***** ***** I am not sure about my life anymore. I was deceived, humiliated, and treated very bad by a stupid fire department. When I got hired, I was offered a part time position with the intent of being full time. When the position opened up, they hired someone from the outside rather than hiring me and I did everything that I was supposed to. I was given gear with my name on it like everyone else. Now I have a hatred for all firefighters. They are supposed to help people, not hurt or deceive people. The worst part is that I can't do anything legally. Because of this, I have a fear of them and i would rather die then to be saved by one of them. All firefighters are evil and their purpose is to ruin lives like mine. I hate them all and for what they stand for. In regards ***** ***** what can I do to live my life. I am going back to school to become a nurse but till this day I am haunted and tormented by them and all firefighters.
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It sounds like this is causing you a great deal of distress. I would highly recommend seeing a counselor who specializes in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. This type of therapy can help you directly confront the thoughts and emotions wrapped up in this situation and help you find a better balance so you can more forward in your life and your new career path. This type of therapy can often be done in a time limited fashion (8-12 session) so it is very affordable. If you are in school, you may be able to attain this type of counseling free from your school's counseling center.

Good luck with the nursing degree. I hope you will pursue CBT so you don't let them destroy your future.

Selah
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