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Experience:  Twenty-five years treating all ages; Specialities: psychopharmacology & diagnosis, MMPI-2, testing.
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Mariage breakdown. verbak violence repeat physical violence

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Mariage breakdown.
verbak violence repeat physical violence over 14 years. 1.5 yrs ago assaulted me with closed fists and pushed me into a glass mirror after I found out he was sexting with his ex wife. He blacks out after 2 beers, was sobor for years; then while were both in marriage counseling, he decided a beer here and there was no big deal....Well that was before the mirror ,stitches, protective services, dv classes, aa classes,and probation accoountability reporting. His documentation has been forged since nov,09; he's drinking again, using harsh startups, and just this week when our two pre teen girls got rowdy over bathroom time, he began to curse them out. one daughter yelled about it not being fair. His response was "Don't you fu**king yell at me!"
I latter asked if he knew what the fight was about, and he had no idea.
Submitted: 7 years ago.
Category: Mental Health
Expert:  Dr. Ed Wilfong replied 7 years ago.
You have to decide. Leave or live with him "as is" . Change is unlikely. I never get paid for these answers but the pattern is so clear, I can't make up a fairy tail ending.