Thanks for divulging on it a bit further.
Now , it is quite clear to see that you are being cornered in this relationship , and that you are not his priority , and there is quite a fair chance right , that he may in future like to go separate ways , i hope you understand that being going backwards in a relationship which is 9 years old , what in future may be stored for you , and that is an unpredictable and insecure future .
So, lady , i will request you to take call at this very moment and give him an ultimatum that you are not going to be ta***** *****ghtly any more and you want him to commit to your relationship and make your relationship a secure and committed one , you deserve it , and if he still lingers on and shys away from committing then i am sorry to say that he will never commit later in life also , so in this case it will be in your interest to part ways with him and start a fresh life , because otherwise you will keep on feeling dejected and as an outsider , and this will take a toll on your health eventually .
I hope this helps..
TAKE CARE .. Stand up to your right and make things clear to him , and wait for his answer , and then accordingly take further action .
Please press the ACCEPT button if you are satisfied with the answer as only then will i be credited for my service.