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I am a diabetes sufferer. Despite trying various medication,

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I am a diabetes sufferer.
Despite trying various medication, injections, etc. erection problems persist and have been occurring for some 20 years. During this period I can only recall two partners that have given me full satisfaction and penetration. If it is so with say 1% of sexual partners, why the problem with the other 99%? My mind says "go go" but this doesn't transfer to the penis area?
Is there some permanent solution? I am 72 years old. Should I just lie down and die, so to speak?
Submitted: 10 months ago.
Category: Medical
Expert:  Dr. Bob replied 10 months ago.

Have you tried viagra or cialis?

Customer: replied 10 months ago.
Customer: replied 10 months ago.
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Expert:  Dr. Bob replied 10 months ago.

Many men have severe ED by the age of 72. Diabetics are even more likely to have trouble. ED medications have been a boon to men in this category and can prolong their sex life, though it rarely gets them back to where they were in their 40s or 50s. Even with the meds (or creams or injections), the sexual response at 72 takes more time and requires a higher level of arousal (and fewer "distractions" such as hygeine issues or performance anxiety, etc). If sex when young is 90% "from the neck up" it is probably 95% or more so in our older years. This may be why the partner you are with and your feelings toward her as well as yourself are probably much more important in terms of acheiving full satisfaction.

Expert:  Dr. Bob replied 10 months ago.

Have you seen a urologist to rule out other "organic" factors that might be at play (blood pressure, lipids, liver function. thyroid function, testosterone levels, etc), as well as to discuss other options yet untried?