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Currently unable to orgasm in sexual activity with my spouse. Consulted urologist and told the plumbing is ok. This developed rather suddenly about 7 years ago, from regular ejaculatory sex to about 1 or 2 times per year. My wife and I have sex about once a week since I turned 60 (I am 76 and my wife is 76 ). Libido is not a problem nor is erection a problem. I can masturbate successfully usually but not always. I am taking no medicines that are listed as contributing to the problem. (HZT, Omeprazole. 25 aspirin, 40 mg simvistatin, fish oil, multi B vitamin). Also taking Methotrexate 3/week for treatment of CIDP.
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you and your wife should talk to a sex therapist.

if you can masturbate successfully, then you can teach your wife to masturbate you manually successfully as well.

and you can introduce mutual masturbation into forplay as well

these are techniques sex therapist will use to help you and your wife have better sex.

are you willing to see a sex therapist?

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