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I have a 53 year old woman that lives with my 76 year old uncle it is not her leagal address and after some time of her being there he has over $16,000 of debt and his savings of 15000 is wiped out he is very ill and forgetful and I have stepped up as POA and Health care Proxy. She has been making financial decisions for him and health care decisions after finding out the finances are depleated i have stated she can no longer live at the residence of my Uncle while he is so ill she recieves New York SSDI at her leagal address and contributes nothing to my uncleand i expressed she could no longer live there with him exhausting his resources. My Uncle does understand the decisions i have made for him and all is good until she comes to visit him also i am now being berated on a social media site by her family as i am running for a local office not really sure if a slande or defamation issue is happening

Lawyer's Assistant: Can you tell me what state this is in? And just to clarify, what paperwork has been filed?

POA done and im in New York ,health care Proxy and executor remember nothing is in her name at my uncles house

Lawyer's Assistant: Have you talked to a lawyer yet?

No

Lawyer's Assistant: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?

I think we are done

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Lawyer: ScottyMacEsq, Attorney replied 8 months ago
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Customer reply replied 8 months ago

With my POA obligations how do i make her and her family understand and accept the decisions i have made with out them slandering me or defaming my name

Lawyer: ScottyMacEsq, Attorney replied 8 months ago

You said that you suspect that defamation is occurring, but do you know of any actual statement made about you?

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Customer reply replied 8 months ago

No they have stated they will post on the site as i stated how do i keep them from posting and get them to understand my obigation

Lawyer: ScottyMacEsq, Attorney replied 8 months ago

But they will "post on the site" what?

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Customer reply replied 8 months ago

That i dispossed the woman and left her homeless

Lawyer: ScottyMacEsq, Attorney replied 8 months ago

I see. Thank you for that additional information. Please give me a few minutes while I type a response. I am still here with you, but it does take a bit of time to type a complete response.

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Lawyer: ScottyMacEsq, Attorney replied 8 months ago

First of all, you need to know a bit about what defamation (libel is written defamation, slander is spoken defamation) is. Defamation is a false statement of material fact communicated to a third party that causes quantifiable economic damage. It has to be false (truth is a defense). It has to be a "statement of material fact" (opinions are not actionable). It has to be communicated to third parties, and the statement itself has to cause quantifiable economic damages (some dollar amount that you can directly trace to the statement). If even one of those factors is missing, then there's no defamation case.

So if it's true, even if it uses colorful language, it's not defamation. Even if it's harmful to your reputation, it's not defamation. Even if it is done with "malice", is not defamation if true. If you told her to get out of the house, even if you were the nicest, most wonderful, most apologetic person in the world doing so, it's still putting her out of the house, and if she has no where to go, that leaves her "homeless". Again, colorful language, certainly. But I don't necessarily see how it would be false.

Now you could always threaten them with a "demand letter", demanding that you will take legal action against them for any and all defamatory statements made about you in public. Note that this would pretty much be a bluff, as if they said anything about you that was true, that would not be actionable, no matter how damaging, no matter how malicious. It still might be the best way to prevent them saying anything.

You can also state that you're not filing a case with "Adult Protective Services" (APS) against her (as it appears that there was some financial impropriety). APS is a mandated service provided by local social services districts. It involves intake, investigation and assessment of referrals of abuse, neglect, and financial exploitation of impaired vulnerable adults who live in the community. APS workers develop services plans for eligible clients to remedy physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, neglect, financial exploitation, or to address unmet essential needs of adults. http://ocfs.ny.gov/main/psa/

You can make it clear that you can still file such a case, but that you'd rather not. If they feel that they need to bring this out, you might need to file just so that you can protect your father and present your own side of it.

Hope that clears things up a bit. If you have any other questions, please let me know. If not, and you have not yet, please rate my answer AND press the "submit" button, if applicable.

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