These are the financial decisions that we are arguing about:
I was day trading, and after what I thought was some success, I tried to be more successful and make it my job. I ended up loosing a lot. He knew I was trading but we never really discussed it. We've always had a poor communicative relationship and didn't really talk much. He also has a scary anger issue which I always just tried to avoid.
He has a company that we started in 2010. I put it all together (administratively, legally etc..) even chose the name, Button Nutrition Inc. we were the two officers and considered employees
of our company. I did all the books, billing, employees everything behind the scenes. He is a dairy nutritionist and a very good one and after working for other people he decided to go on his own and be paid what he is worth.
The way the cooperation was set up, any money in our Button Nutrition account was ours. There was a stock I heavily invested in that began dropping. I did make several transfers from our business account into the Etrade account to support the dropping stock. Our accountant new about it and at any given time the books were there for him to see. I was not trying to hide anything. I was so confident that when the stock bounced back that all would be good.
I have a couple more examples to give you in a bit.