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Unfortunately, only a legally competent individual can grant another person a POA. While you might have an attorney draft a POA for you, if your mother is not competent, then even her signing of the POA would not legally grant you the right to act on her behalf.
In order for you to be able to assist her now that she is already suffering from dementia, you would have had to have already had a Durable Power of Attorney in place before she became incompetent. I am very sorry. All you can do is act immediately on her passing to become her Administrator, by filing a Probate Action in court----or file a formal petition with the court through an attorney to become her legal guardian and conservator of her estate which she is living. This would give you the legal right to act on her behalf---similar to a power of attorney but with greater legal powers.
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