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My ex girlfriend says she is pregnant (I am 99% sure this

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my ex girlfriend says she is pregnant (I am 99% sure this isn't true or my child; but if it is, i want a healthy baby and will even sue for custody. However, she is a drinker and told me she takes pills, one reason why we broke up. Am I able to get some kind of injunction against her and her behaivors as I am totally against abortions (I know I have no legal footing here) and do not want this baby harmed.
JA: Because laws vary from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?
Customer: Pennsylvania..we both are college students
JA: Has anything been filed or reported?
Customer: I filed a harassment charge against her. I broke up with her Saturday because of this heavy drinking, and other things...I was told she was seeing her old boyfriend. I am a premed student and have a lot on my plate. The next morning, she called and I told her that i needed space. She then told me she was pregnant and getting another abortion...Ok, never knew she had one before I met her. Since that morning she and her mother continued texting my mom (who lives in NV) and me until the evening. My parents told me to report this to the campus police which I did. Even though, she got the warning from them last night, she text me again today to say she is keeping this baby. Of course I didn't respond, but am worried over this.
JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?
Customer: no
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Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 1 year ago
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I am sorry, but there is no legal mechanism to allow a would-be father to force the mother to behave (or not to behave) in a certain way. So this is not an option. HOWEVER, someone in your situation can sue for custody as soon as the child is born.

AND/OR someone in your situation can file a complaint with DHS. See HERE. DHS also does not have the ability to force her to do anything, but they can and may take the child away once it is born unless she agrees to regular check ups and to stop risking the child's health by acting irresponsibly (if so, they will normally try to place the child with a relative if possible so you'd be on the short list by presumption).

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Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 1 year ago
Hello again. This is a courtesy check in to see if you needed anything else in regards ***** ***** question because you never responded or replied positively. I am simply touching base. Let me know. Thanks!
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