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You have a right to half of all assets acquired during the marriage, including half of any retirement accounts your husband paid into and all bank accounts. On top of that, you will have a right to child support if you remain the custodial parent - which is likely since you've been the primary caregiver all this time. And if you've been married at least 10 years, you also have a right to spousal support. Even if your husband controls all the finances, the marital assets are half yours. What you could do is file a Complaint for Divorce along with a Motion for Attorney's Fees, asking a judge to order that your husband advance enough of your share of the assets to pay for your lawyer. That helps ensure that you're on equal footing during the divorce.
You also have the ability to file a Motion for Exclusive Use and Possession of the Marital Home so the children won't be disrupted by a move in the middle of the school year, and a Motion for Spousal Support Pending Litigation, so you can support yourself until things are finalized. Texas is a community property state. He can't take everything. The law is very clear that you each get half.
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