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I would not recommend releasing the original of the POA to anyone. That document is very important and I would not let anyone have the original.
If they are not willing to accept a copy of the POA (which they shouldn't need anyway), you may want to consider finding another buyer.
The lender has no legal right to a copy of the original, and trying to get it back is going to be very difficult.