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The "lady at the bank" gave you wrong information. Your mother as the Representative Payee is the only one who is supposed to be on the account because your mother is solely responsible for the account and must account to the Social Security Administration how the money is being used.
No, he does not have to live with your mother in order for his benefit payments to be used for his expenses. For duties of a Representative Payee, click on the link below: