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I am a bit unclear from your facts. Do you or do you not have a healthcare POA from your mom?
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I can only communiate in bits and pieces if its ok with you. I think I do have a health care POA for my mom.. But she is not well today and I don;t have time to look for it to verity. I Believe when my sibling is not available, I have the POA... So the wording is simply like that. But I will check once my mom is stable. It may take a few days because my helper has the flu and I have other things going on. But I will get back to this as long as you have knowledge of the topic...
If you have a signed healthcare poa you can get her medical info directly from her doctors. You can also get it from your brother.
His wife says he is co-dependant and it seems there are so many rules to communicating that is seems like bullying. I am afraid she will look at his phone and they will argue saying his stress is caused by me. And that siblings should not interfere with their brothers and sisters health if they are married. I gave a referral to a particular specialist or sometimes research for him. he is not a stranger to me. But now I am suppose to be like other siblings and normal adults and wait to be asked if he wants help instead of sending a lead to a doctor or something like that.
If me and my sibling previously had the same interest in health and cures, what is wrong with continuing that hobby once he is married? Do you know if there are issues like this that get too intense where a spouse wants to micromanage their spouse constantly? We own my parents home now and have their accounts so I feel we have to work together and communicate often to sort this transition out for their care... I sporadically contact him. SOmetimes never for 2 weeks.. Is there a measure in the courts to determine what a normal relationship between siblings is suppose to look like?
If you have a poa then you are legally entitled to the info and you can ask until you receive the requested info.