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I am sorry to learn of this situation.
The Condo Ass'n should be taking efforts to enforce the rules (i.e. levy fines against her) as dictated by the by-laws/CC&Rs or other governing documents.
If the Condo Ass'n refuses to, or is unwilling to, enforce the rules, you have a right to sue the Ass'n for failure to enforce the rules.
(You may also have a right of action directly against this individual under your by-laws or governing documents for "independent enforcement" - but in general, it is more common for homeowners to sue (or at least threaten to sue) the Ass'n to get them to act as they should).
Short of filing a lawsuit, you can try to mediate the dispute with the Condo Ass'n board - contact your local bar association and request referrals to mediators, a third party neutral can often help you reach a mutually agreeable resolution. Use the bar association's referrals to contact a mediator or two, the mediator will then contact the other party to set up a mediation session, and you can go from there - hopefully resulting in a formal or written settlement agreement, and save yourself the time and expense of litigation.
You need to do this.
Most Associations include an "attorney's fees clause" (also known as a "prevailing party clause" or similar clause) in their governing documents that will permit you to recover your attorney's fees when you win - but the Association does have an obligation to enforce the rules (this is part of your operating expense).
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I wish you the best of luck.