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If she is not on your plan, then you will not be allowed to get access to her text messages without a subpoena. That said, if she is on your cellular plan, then you should be able to request a copy of the text messages from the carrier since you are the one that is paying the bills for the phone. Sometimes, in this situation, cellular carriers will refuse to turn over the texts...not because it is legal to do so, but because they want something from a court ordering them to do so in order to protect themselves against a separate suit...in this case, from the wife.
That said, if the cellular carrier will not release them to you, you need to send them a letter, certified with a return receipt, ordering them to preserve any and all text messages in view of pending litigation. When you do file for divorce, you will then be able to have a subpoena issued to both your wife and the cellular carrier that she uses to get the text messages released to you and the court. The subpoena is essentially an order from the court to turn over this information. A subpoena cannot be issued until a court action has started, however.
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