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My boss, the owner of a small massage therapy/bodywork

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My boss, the owner of a small massage therapy/bodywork business, asked me to come to his house to perform a 2 hour massage on him, and then his business partner/girlfriend. It ended up being just him, and when i had him turn face up for the last 30 minutes, he had an erection the entire time. i didnt think much of it since we had a mutual respect for eachother as bodyworkers, i thought he must be super relaxed and comfortable to not hide it. when i finished i asked him if i was too sensual in my work and is that maybe why he had an erection. he said no, it was because i was gorgeous and I turn him on. this shocked me and made me very uncomfortable, but i was playing cool.He then came over to me and tried to kiss me, in which i totally pulled away and said no . he then asked if he could work on me next. i said no at first because i wanted to get paid, not do a trade, so he offered to pay me for my time. I finally agreed because he was going to be training me on his technique soon, so i wanted to see what it felt like. he insisted i take off my pants after me telling him i wasnt going to. i only agreed to 10/15 minutes of backwork, and found it unneccesary. but then i felt stupid for not taking them off, so i did. as i was face down with my arms at side ,palms up, he rested his penis in my hand. i was super shocked, stunned, almost frozen, but jerked away and said don't. then he asked if i would put it in my mouth. i said no way. then he proceeded to work on my back and butt and his fingers were pretty much between my legs, maybe even in my vagina for a moment, im not quite sure i was so freaked out and vulnerable, and feeling really shy at the same time. i should have got up and ran out but ws still thinking how this is my only job and i shouldnt throw it away just yet.. .Im a single mom. then he asked if i would jerk him off so he wouldnt be so distracted, and then he would continue the massage. i lifted my head up and there was his penis right in my face. in anger, rebellion, and disgust i let him put it in my mouth for a few seconds while i saw red. then i pulled away and yelled im not doing this i dont want to do this. he put it in my hand and i attempted for a moment then pulled away and said do it yourself i do not want to do this. he sat in front of me on the table and jerked himself off and came all over his shirt. i again layed face down on table and he legitimately gave me a 10 minute example of his back work. , I thanked him, took his $60 tip and left. I went to work the next day as if nothing happened and had two clients. Later that evening i started having flashbacks and it all started to really sink in. I am not attracted to this man whatsoever. i am disgusted by his behavior,and very upset with myself for handling it so naivley and poorly. I quit the next day via text and asked him to compensate me $2000 for having to quit abruptly and also for ruining my outcall practice, no more males!!! he is the one male i thought for sure i could trust, so my guard was waaaaaay down. His partner sent my paycheck in the mail , and asked for my availability next week. He obviously didnt share with her what happened. and it is his word against mine, no witnesses. i am so creeped out i feel like i need a whole new career. He didnt respond to my request for restitution and me walking away in peace without rocking the boat for his family or mine. he is also in a custody battle with his exwife, who i would like to alert as well since hes not complying with my needs. oh, and he didnt end up paying me for the work on me, just his 2 hour massage. do i have a case??
Submitted: 2 years ago.
Category: Legal
Expert:  LawTalk replied 2 years ago.

Good afternoon,

I'm Doug, and I'm very sorry to hear of your situation. My goal is to provide you with excellent service today.

I've been a licensed CA attorney for three decades now, and for two of those, I have handled employment discrimination law and litigated cases against employers. Your description of the situation seems to indicate that there is discrimination going on based on your sex (sexual harassment).

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