I am sorry to hear about your account. I agree that it certainly would be a lot easier on everyone, if everyone were all on the same page, but all we know is what we are told. so I apologize for any confusion.
Although he may not have been convicted of anything, I would be very surprised and disappointed if the FBI Report did not make the Judge think twice about the Plaintiff's character and at least question it. When a Judge is really interested in justice, the Judge will question witnesses and fill in any gaps which a party might have overlooked.
Each of you should take the stand separately and tesify in the narrative form. Neither of you can question the other while you are on the witness stand because it would look like you were representing each other and that would constitute practicing law without a license. I do not see how the Plaintiff can possibly prove your statements are wrong in the face of the FBI report, the web cache of his login on the computer, the photographs he took, and any other information you plan to introduce. That would be a lot of evidence for him to overcome and I do not think he can do it, but nobody can predict the future. All you can do is prepare yourself as best you can, have all your evidence neatly put together and marked as Exhibits, then hand it up to the Judge as Evidence,
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