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You have the right to raise the same arguments that you raised in your divorce petition and upon her converting back to a petition for dissolution. If she tries to stop you from raising your contentions, then you would raise the issue of fraud and misrepresentation regarding an attempted reconciliation. Just because she is converting the petition now back from separation to a divorce does not mean she will automatically get whatever she is seeking. You have your right to object to the divorce allegations she raises as well as to the community property distribution she is seeking just as she could have objected when you initially filed for dissolution.
Furthermore, she cannot argue that there was forgiveness or reconciliation because you have the proof that she was the one who made promises to get you to change it over to a separation and never carried out on them when you did. Since she breached her promise she is not going to be able to argue that you cannot raise your grounds for dissolution again in your answer to her petition for dissolution. You retain your right to challenge her petition based on the circumstances you are describing, since she made apparently known false promises to induce you to convert the petition.
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