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Can you please tell me what state you are located in ?
Have you tried to take out restraining orders on your ex husband?
Is your daughter now over 18 and not subject to DCF rulings any longer?
Unfortunately, pressing any kind of charges or lawsuit against DCF is simply impossible. In every state in the US, the children's services agency is the one agency that even makes Judges quake with fear due to the chance that the judge might lose his own children to a witchhunt. My suggestion to you here is to get the restraining orders filed on your ex husband and even if he has one on you then there will be dual RO's out there and usually when th epolice see that they will refuse to act on either RO because they do not know which side is worse. I would simply walk away from them right now and let your daughter sit in a stew of her own making -- and then after the baby is born call DCF on the entire household because it doesn't sound like they are going to get any better after the baby is born either.
I did see that the state is CT before I gave my answer above. Other than getting your own restraining order on your ex and starting to call the DCF yourself, there really isn't much more I can tell you here unless you want to hire a local lawyer to handle any issues that come up because of these matters. I will opt out of the question and put it back on the board and if anyone has any further suggestions I am sure they will post here on line for you. Do not respond to this message because then the question will be routed to me again and we want it to go back on the board for another lawyer to pick up.