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Mom is harassing me. I have bad depression and anexiety and

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Mom is harassing me. I have bad depression and anexiety and my mom and step dad and her side of the family cause me severe stress and anxiety. I have changed my phone # XXXXX have ceased talking to her. She has been calling around trying to get me to talk to her, which my counsiler doesn't want me to, and in fact he wants me to have very limited contact and don't want any. Then today she decides to come my grandpa's place where I have been staying and wanted to talk. I did not know she was coming and my grandpa didn't stop her. So I was trapped in a bedroom in the back until finally she allowed me to leave. How can I get some legal protection from her in iowa where I live?
Submitted: 6 years ago.
Category: Legal
Expert:  Jane Doe Deer replied 6 years ago.

Thank you for contacting Just Answer. I am sorry to hear about your situation.



Answer: In Iowa, you can attempt to obtain a protection order. Before that, you may want to try family counseling and/or writing your mother a certified, return receipt letter telling her not to contact you any further.


To obtain a protection order:





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Edited by Jane Doe Deer on 11/14/2010 at 9:57 PM EST
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