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I HAVE A 16YR OLD WE ALREADY HAVE A COURT ORDER IN PLACE ...

I HAVE A 16YR OLD...
I HAVE A 16YR OLD WE ALREADY HAVE A COURT ORDER IN PLACE HE IS TRYING TO GET CUSTODY NOW BUT HE OWES ABOUT 14,000 IN BACK SUPPORT,MY SON DOES NOT WANT TO LIVE WITH HIM; HE ALSO HAS 4 KIDS +WIFE IN 2 BEDROOM DUPLEX DOES HE EVEN HAVE CHANCE ?ORDER TOOK PLACE IN 2005 HAS BEEN IN AND OUT OF SON''S LIFE BEFORE 05.
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DearCustomer

Thank you for your question.

Since there is a court order in place, he would need to show to the judge why a modification of the existing order is warranted. He could explain a change in circumstance, but overall he would need to explain to the court why changing the existing order is in your son's best interest.

There is a presumption that a child's best interests are met through a relationship with both biological parents, so in that regard he stands a chance of maintaining visitation and/or potentially some custody. However, without a compelling reason, it is doubtful that the court will outright grant sole custody. You will have the ability to oppose your ex' petition, you can attached a declaration from yourself and your son, explaining why the current arrangement should not be changed and/or why it is not in your son's best interests to be placed in his custody. Within the reasoning in your declarations, you could explain your ex' current living situation and the fact that your ex has been unstable and in and out of your son's life. Your son is also of the age where his living preference will be given consideration by the court. Lay out each point objectively and factually in the declaration, try to keep the emotion removed from it.

The judge will look at the petition, the supporting evidence, and any opposition in making a ruling based on what is in your son's best interests.

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Customer reply replied 9 years ago
my son and i did responded to the court he wrote a letter and so did i, his reasons for removing my son is because of his grades in school which we've been working on his behavior is not a problem which he said it was and tried to say his teeth were horrible , he had one cracked tooth.

A letter may not be the acceptable format to send to the court. Ensure that you have filed the appropriate paper work, i.e. the opposition to the petition, also. You can reattach a copy of the letters to the opposition, but ensure that you have filed the correct legal paperwork.

If you can show the court that these issues are really not problems, then your ex may just look like he is making a mountain out of a mole hill. If he has bad grades, you may want to show the court how, as the parent, you are addressing this issue. If he crached a tooth, you may want to explain how this happened.

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Customer reply replied 9 years ago
all paperwork and responses were filed with the court in timely manner. but should i be filing for back support of the 12,000 he owes later or do i need to file potition in pennsylvania? the original order is in nj and he just started to make consistent payments in 05.he got my son's tooth fixed but to say he had horrible teeth is false should i request dental records

Dental records will mean little without an expert to explain them to the court, but perhaps a declaration or affadavit from your son's dentist would help.

If he owes for back support, then you should definitely pursue that sooner than later.

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