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I'm so sorry but I am not going to have very good news about this for you. It will not be what you want to hear and I wish I had better news but I have to be honest. I hope you can rate me based on my service and not good or bad news.
Unfortunately, if your wife wants to divorce you and will not attend the interview with you, then your case will be denied. Legally, there is no way to force your wife to continuing petitioning you. If you two are not together then she cannot. However, if you two decide to reconcile and she does go to the interview with you and you pass, then you should be fine. You would became a permanent resident and depending how long you have been married at that point you either get the temporary greencard or permanent green card. Once you have one of those, even if you divorce later after that, you will be able to keep your green card if you can prove it was a real marriage later. But if you divorce before your first interview and your wife doesn't go to the interview, you will be denied a green card.
The only thing you can do if your wife goes through with the divorce and does not go to the interview would be to file as a VAWA victim of domestic violence if your wife has even physically abused you. You would need evidence such as a police report.
I'm sorry again.
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