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have intercourse unless i give him oral first..erection..ejaculate

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Hi I am in a relationship with someone and we are madly in love. he was incarcerated for 4 yrs and now he can not have intercourse unless i give him oral first. I know he can get an erection cause he wakes up with one. Once I give him oral for a little while we can have intercourse and he does ejaculate but seems like he has to go really fast almost scared to lose the erection.
Any advice?
Submitted: 6 years ago.
Category: Health
Expert:  Anthony Bray, MD replied 6 years ago.

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Anthony Bray MD :

You might suggest that he discuss this with his doctor. I would bet that one of the ED drugs(Viagra, Cialis or Levitra) would probably help him to obtain an erection more readily and maintain it longer.

Anthony Bray MD :

If premature ejaculation is an ongoing problem then Paxil can be effective to help with this. While not one its FDA indications for use, it is a well known side effect of Paxil (and other SSRI antidepressants) that it delays the time to orgasm. This can be useful in that particular situation.

Expert:  Anthony Bray, MD replied 6 years ago.



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