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My girlfriend left me last Thursday for unknown reasons

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My girlfriend left me last Thursday for unknown reasons while I was at work went to NY supposedly her X husband died in a car crash involving 4 people looked online couldn't find anything now she's supposedly went back to kill him she is now supposedly in a hospital. I can't find anything out about her PLEASE HELP ME
Submitted: 11 months ago.
Category: General
Customer: replied 11 months ago.
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Expert:  Legal Ease replied 11 months ago.

Hello! My name is***** you for your question. I'm reviewing it now, and will post back again shortly.

Expert:  Legal Ease replied 11 months ago.

The question is on the Canada law list.

But is this in North York, Ontario or New York?

Expert:  Legal Ease replied 11 months ago.

I am going to opt out and let another general expert answer.

Expert:  Cher replied 11 months ago.

Hello, Mary.

My name is ***** ***** I will try to help you today.

How are you finding out all these 'supposed' facts about your girlfriend? Is she posting anything on social media? Do you have some mutual friends that have been speaking to?

In any case, you said her ex-husband was killed in an auto accident, then you said she supposedly went back to kill him. Why would she want to kill him if he's already dead? This is a confusing statement, so if you could elaborate, it would be appreciated.

Now, you said she's supposedly in a hospital. The only way to find out where she is, is to either call the New York Police and ask for their help and/or hiring a private detective to track her down.

Have you tried to reach out to her by phone, text or checked her social media pages, if she has any?

This is the best advice I can share with you, to try to locate your girlfriend. I hope you find her, soon!

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Customer: replied 11 months ago.
I have talked to her oldest daughter 2 days ago and sent her the texts of her wanting to kill her X. I'm having a really hard time with all of this bc I never saw this coming, little did I know that when. I left for work on the 27rh of October that I'd never see her again
Expert:  Cher replied 11 months ago.

Thanks for your helpful reply.

Has she been in touch with her oldest daughter, since she went to New York?

If her ex was killed in a car accident, do you think she had anything to do with it?

I'm so sorry that this happened so suddenly and for apparently no reason. I completely understand your sadness and worry.

Please take my advice and contact the New York law enforcement authorities to get information about the car crash involving her ex-husband and see if she was involved or they know anything about her. You can also report her as a missing person where you live and in New York. That might help you find her.

Please be so kind as to rate my answer with positive feedback, as that is the only way I receive recognition from the website for my assistance. Thank you very much!

Warmest wishes,


Expert:  Cher replied 11 months ago.

Just checking in with you to see how everything is going.

Please let me know if you found my answer helpful.