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Hi , I just wanted to say thank you for your input. My follow

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Hi ,
I just wanted to say thank you for your input. My follow up is, He asked me to see him on a Friday, but I was out of town and didn't text him until later to play hard to get. He was very quick to reply back to me. When I think he has disappeared on me, he comes back . But we only see eachother once a week. I haven't seen him for about a week now. Should I move on or wait patiently? Is he still interested, what can I do?
Why do men keep coming back, is there a reason for this?

Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

How are you?

Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

You need to focus on what makes you happy!

Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

No one usually misses anything until it is gone!

Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

If you distance yourself, he may realize how wonderful of a person you are and be a more committed!

Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

Men keep coming back because women allow them too!


Hi Khris... Are you still there? Can we continue with the conversation?

Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

I am here!

Customer: Good I understand what you are saying
Customer: I understanding what you are saying. I'm just not sure if he is no longer interested or he is truely busy
Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

Are we able to continue?

Customer: Yes, Internet prbloems
Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

Time will tell!

Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

You should focus on what makes you happy! You seem like a very understanding person but sometimes we as individuals can only understand so much!

Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

Never force love! Let love come to you! I believe that you are way to smart to simply wait around.

Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

You have loads of passion. I can tell by your commitment!

Customer: Yea, you're right. Forgive me if I don't seem to understand your response, I am clueless about men and dating. I have been single for a fees years. I have gained my confidence and wanted to meet new people. But what do you mean when women allow men to ?
Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

Men seem to try and get away with things if a woman lets them. It seems he only wants to be with you if its convenient to him. So when i say woman allow me to do something. That is an example.

Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

Almost like keeping a leash on you but letting it get longer and longer.

Customer: I also understand that the maturity level may play a factor. I have a lot going on for myself with school and work and hobbies, but when it comes to men, I just don't understand if its me or them .
Customer: Ok, I see... As painful and hard as it is. The last time we spoke was Wednesday . The attraction was still there. He said we could get together again. Which we usually do, once a week with his schedule . I've been distancing myself . Haven't heard from him since then.
Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

What does your gut say?

Customer: To just pull back from him which I've done.. He is busy or lost interest. Not really sure.
Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

He very well may be busy but if he really cares, he will make time for you.

Customer: Thank you , I will let you know how things go.
Khristopher N. Sines AACJ :

Appreciate that! Good luck to you!

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