Change him, in terms of what you referenced in your first post of the question, "his issues" you cannot have any effect on those blocks for him.
Yes, asking for a red balloon, but not right before you walk into Party City or the circus!! :) You know? :)
Melanie, with all love in my heart, I say, if you "can't help but" anything, there is no reading to do -- your mind is made up on what you're doing to do, you are quite adamant about that. And that's Spiritually wonderful as long as you are going to take full responsiblity in your soul for whatever the outcome is.
The reading is supposed to help you see energy that you normally can't see, so you can make decisions. You've already decided :)
So, to bring it back 'round to your original question:
will he be able to get over his issues to continue a relationship with meAnswer: No.
or is it time for me to give up-Answer: Yes.
This is our answer, this is what I see from your guides who love you. Namaste`