For Rohanna only:Long time no talk, I missed you and your…

Wow - that is a lot. I certainly don't mind the lengthiness and I was just wondering about you last night. Just because there was an issue with your account doesn't mean that we can't talk. We just had to redefine and figure it out so it was working for us both and your account was doing like it should. As I said before, if you cant get me on here you can also email me direct to let me know you need to talk to me on here as well. When you have emergencies or something you want a quick answer for my email is best but we would still do the readings on here - it's just that I check them more often. If you don't have it, it [email protected] you can message me there as a heads up as it goes to my phone when I am out and I can get back to you that way.

I did check with the cards to see all of what is going on with him and started with a full reading. I am sure you will have specific questions afterwards in reference and that is okay. I certainly don't mind doing follow up. I will just request a new question when it is a different question or line of questioning - if that makes sense?

For the reading on what is going on with him right now, I get first the 5 of coins in the reversed position. This card reflects the issue around him right now and it is not an emotional one. With him, he is trying still to keep things separate and mostly because he is wanting to focus on his own stuff. When he starts to feel too down and he can't manage then he backs off. He wands to use you as a crutch as he has for the past. This card shows that he is holding back on anything that is deep or important - he is posting online but nothing that is substantial. Just the day to day kind of stuff. Blocking him is still the transformation. I am seeing the death card, which as you probably know - doesn't indicate real death... but rather is focusing on life changes.

His own transformation is causing him to reevaluate and he is going to approach your conversation lightly without getting too close while he is adjusting his habits. He has other things going on as well and I think the rejection from his last relationship wasn't entirely expected. He seems to still be assessing what he has to offer. His focus doesn't seem to be on relationships right now, and in a way - for you - that is a good thing.

He has a lot going on internally and externally as well. His future card is one of the most dismal cards in the deck - the Tower card - which represents resistance to change and finally the universe, God, or whatever you want to call it - coming in and creating catastrophic change. With this card on the horizon for him, it says to me that he has a LOT more changes that are coming his way and he is going to need support. I would expect one of two things to happen at that time - for him to completely retreat and become a hermit for a while that will respond to you with prodding... or to reach out to you and sort of create the same kinds of behavior that he used to have in the past.

Either way, it does show closer contact in a needy sort of desperate way over the next month. When I look to see what this is going to require I am seeing the 6 of Coins card in the reversed position. Basically - it shows you need to reach out and to be clear with him on your expectations right now. I would say it is a good time to text him again - with plans in mind. Don't just say sometime or maybe - be clear. Do you want to go hang out on Saturday and have coffee? It would be nice to catch up. Something like this - clear and to the point. He is going to be hesitant, but even if he rejects the first offer then mke a back up offer. The fool card shows up and says he would like this but he is not wanting to go. He wants to but he doesn''t... Sort of wishy washy. He is going to need closeness and the seed being planted is the next action that is needed right now.

As for his reaction of the OK - I get the 2 of Cups card. This says to me that it was an okay to the pictures and he sort of glossed over the questions. The two of cups card indicates he was in the moment rather than thinking of the bigger picture. Don't worry about it though - communiction is showing as welcome even though he is resistant.

Hey - you are just coming in. I was just ending up typing and going back to do some homeschooling with my son. I will be in and out all day :) I will be back in about 15 min.

Hi there, have been having some difficulties with the site, but I am back on for a while off and on at least. Anyway, I did check about his visit last night and as far as I can tell the counselor has been seen. I can't be sure if it was last night specifically but I am seeing that conversation has been made.

I do agree with the counselor and the assessment that you need to keep your distance if you feel that you are not strong enough to keep your boundaries. I personally think at a public place if you put your mind to it, you could. Remember this is about gaining your own power back and focusing on what you want in the end. You could do it - you just have to prepare yourself for it! :)

It didn't show that no. I don't think the counselor is wholly against you talking after this time. I mean, are you sure that that is the reason?

The counselor didn't say that you couldn't talk I mean?

That is good about the road test. I can check about the date for you - I have a meeting right now - so I will do it right after. Sorry to keep you waiting, I am just filling them out between meetings but this is my last one tonight! :D *should* be done in about an hour or so....

Let me know if there are other specific questions too so I can look into all of them...

Well, it all depends on what you want. I mean, we both know you still love him and the counselor seems to me to be in a quandry as he is the counselor for the both of you. He is going to know what is going on with Sean as well and knows that the two of you are not in a place for a healthy relationship. Legally, I can't go against doctor's orders and say something opposed to medical opionion as I am not a doctor and not clinically trained. I can say what I see here and that the chance of what is going to happen is increased by a direct contact. I can't say that I disagree with the counselor though - as he is going to know internally what you and what Sean can handle. Answering your question and getting you to the point of where you want to be is different than what you should do to protect yourself and be healthy. I can agree with the counselor and say that even the cards show that an intimate relationship at this time would not be a wise idea simply because the healing hasn't been completed. If you want to have coffee with him though, the cards say that you have to be direct.

So it seems you are at a crossroads here - what you should do and what you can do.

I think whether you do it now or in a month, with direct contact then it will eventually be a response for the positive that he will hang out with you. Part of him is reserved but he still wants that contact as well.

When I look specifically for Sept 5th I get the fool card in the appropriate position and this is a positive sign for response but still a sign of you needing to be careful. There is likely always going to be some part of you that wants him unless you give yourself a HUGE break and distance from him. The fool sometimes has a way of enabling people to act foolish and not to learn from past mistakes. It can also give a clue as to how he is going to respond and shows to me that he might be a bit more tempting at the time than he has been as of recent. but yes, I would say there would be a response. He does want to talk to you.

I double checked and as of now, it is saying yes. I think using the car as the reason is a good idea. Let us check again after the car stuff is taken care of just to double check though. :)

As always it was a pleasure reading for you. If you have any additional questions please let me know. All new readings need to be directed as a new question like you did on this one. Have a good one :) Good luck and have a happy and safe weekend!