Will the love of my life who contacted me after 26 years and…

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Will the love of my life who contacted me after 26 years and I finally be
together? He said he never stopped loving me or looking for me but is now in an
unfulfilling marriage he is hesitant to leave because he doesn't want to hurt
her or have to pay her a lot of alimony since she refuses to work. We have been
emailing eachother everyday, all day for the last 2 years. It is so hard to be
patient and wait...

saihelp · Accepted Answer

saihelp :

hi

Customer:

hello

saihelp :

how are u

Customer:

I am fine and you?

saihelp :

can you please tell me dob yours as well as his

Customer:

mine is 3/28/61 - I am an Aries

Customer:

his is 7/29/61 he is a leo

saihelp :

ok

saihelp :

please wait for two minutes only

Customer:

ok

saihelp :

let me check out

saihelp :

yes, the relationship compatibility of you both seems excellent

Customer:

We had a very intense relationship in college. Misunderstanding caused us to
part ways. We thought that we would have married eachother back then but he left
to go into the Navy and I met a man who i was married to for 24 years. We
divorced a year ago. 2 weeks after I told my ex I wanted a divorce, Glenn
contacted me after 26 years.

saihelp :

he seems very compassionate person and kind hearted too, only due to transit of
saturn you had to separate from one another for some time, otherwise if this
tansition had not been there ,i do not see any thing which could have sepparted
you

saihelp :

yes, that is

saihelp :

only due to saturn transit it all happened in yours life

Customer:

We both have admitted that we were the love of eachother's life and soulmates.
Timing has been our downfall

Customer:

We both have admitted also that we never stopped loving eachother.

saihelp :

yes dear i can see this in your charts

saihelp :

really you seem one for each other

Customer:

But he is married to a woman he originally said to me 2 years ago was his best
friend. They fight all the time and she refuses to get a job. She has a daughter
from a previous marriage and a granddaughter that causes his a lot of stress as
he ends up supporting her financially. He has threatened his wife several times
in the last 2 years that he will leave her if things don't improve but he
hasn't.

saihelp :

actually he has this due to saturn planet along with some part of venus as well
in his chart

saihelp :

which give this type of results regarding relationship

saihelp :

person feels frustrations and tensions

Customer:

He tells me he fantasizes about me sexually and dreams about me too. I have seen
him 2 times in 2 years but only when I flew to his town to see him. He has now
be moved to a town 4 hours away (he is still in the Navy) since last July but he
hasn't made plans to see me. He said he was waiting for his wife to fly to
Florida to see her mom.

Customer:

He is very honorable and feels very guilty about me. Will he leave her to be
with me?

saihelp :

but i can see there are chances of changes in his life

Customer:

when?

Customer:

I have waited 2 years for him to make the chnages necessary for us to be
together.

Customer:

I am very frustrated and tired of waiting

saihelp :

changes have already started in your life

saihelp :

that is why you both are coming close to one another

Customer:

yes I have divorced after 24 years

saihelp :

it will keep going like this

Customer:

he helped me through it

saihelp :

but sorry to say ,do not expect it so soon like it will take some time but yes

saihelp :

you will be with him

saihelp :

he has very strong bond of attraction

Customer:

I want more than anything for us to be together but how long will it take? I
have already invested 2 years. If we aren't meant to be back together I need to
move on and cut him out of my life as devastating that will be

saihelp :

only this issue has to sort out ,you will be having a good life with him again

Customer:

when?

saihelp :

i would not suggest you to cut him out ,

saihelp :

you have waited for 2 years ,now it is not going for so long

saihelp :

you have travelled so now only you are supposed to walk only few steps

saihelp :

so do not be impatient

Customer:

I do not want to spend the rest of my life waiting for him. I want to spend the
rest of my life with a good man and retire with them.

Customer:

He spends every weekend taking her away to ski. They just spent a weekend away.
It kills me to hear this. He is living his life and I am stuck waiting.

saihelp :

look , what i can see in your chart you will be having good relation now ok,

saihelp :

you can wait till november this year, if this

saihelp :

issue means his current wife get divorce you can mary him ,

saihelp :

as chances are very bright ,he is so fed up from her

saihelp :

chances seem you can reunite with him ,it would be better if you can wait till
november this year

saihelp :

time will flew soon , you have already invested two years,

saihelp :

he will keep you happy as he is means for you

Customer:

I don't get any indication from him that he will leave her - he is afraid of
hurting her and having to pay her a lot of money in alimony since she refuses to
work (he has asked her to many times). Only way I can see him leaving is if she
is caught with another man.

saihelp :

look dear, if you have her date of birth i can tell you when she will go from

saihelp :

his life,

Customer:

7/20/62

saihelp :

ok

Customer:

she is a cancer

saihelp :

please wait one minut only

Customer:

and is hanging on to him for dear life since he is the money source

saihelp :

leo and cancer are not so compatible

Customer:

I know water and fire. He basically tells her what to do and she meekly accepts

Customer:

because he is supporting her, her daughter and granddaughter

saihelp :

she is money minded and not of good character ,he is repenting now why i married
her

Customer:

he complains how lazy she is and how everyone is sucking the life and money out
of him yet he stays

saihelp :

yes, i can see he has been supportive through out his life since she is with him

saihelp :

you can support him he is really in need of this

Customer:

10 years they have been married - she 'caught' him when he was depressed after
catching his first wife cheating on him and they divorced

saihelp :

as he is frustrated from home

saihelp :

ok ,i would suggest you to wait for november this year, i hope chances are
bright that you will get solution to this problem

saihelp :

chances are that she will go away with someone or she may have inclination with
someone

saihelp :

she may go herself from his life ,

saihelp :

what i can see in his chart is that he will be enjoying his relationship after
2012 means

saihelp :

chances are there that she is gone

Customer:

so you are saying that she will leave his life this year and he and I will be
together next year?

saihelp :

she should be there for him till november,i am hoping you can be with him in
eight months time ,

saihelp :

chances are there,you have already spent two years ,this time will also flew
away

Customer:

I guess what I need to know if I am going to invest another year is do you see
Glenn and I spending the rest of our lives together? Will he leave her or she
leave him?

saihelp :

chances are that she will leave him

Customer:

that will happen only if there is another man to support her financially

saihelp :

if he stopped giving her any money and if he does not bother what she doing ,she
will leave him herself as she is money minded

saihelp :

she will find him when she will not get money from your ex

Customer:

he can't stop giving her money - she doesn't work

saihelp :

but dear i can see tensions and conflicts they are having

saihelp :

it will lead their relation to some where ,

Customer:

they have had tensions and conflicts the 2 years I have been emailing him :-(

saihelp :

yes, although it had been slow but you will see changes now speedly

saihelp :

as he had been fed up now completely

Customer:

Will I see him before November? He was telling me that he was encouraging her to
visit her mom in Florida so he could make plans to see me...

saihelp :

u

saihelp :

you can meet him after second half of september

Customer:

I am sorry to be so persistant. I have spent half my life in a bad marriage
wishing I had made different choices so I could have been with the man I love
more than anything - Glenn. Now he is back in my life and I want to spend the
second half of my life with him.

Customer:

I never thought I would get a second chance

saihelp :

your wishes will be fulfilled keep patience

saihelp :

you have travelled a long distance , only few more steps are to walk now

Customer:

ok thank you I will continue to wait and hope. I just don't want to waste the
time if we aren't meant to be.

saihelp :

one more thing i want to say

saihelp :

if in case you could not get him back due to her,you would definitely get a good
one as per your chart

saihelp :

because you will be having a good relationship in your chart after 2012 so is in
his chart

saihelp :

so wait and see

Customer:

I guess that's why I really contacted you. If I am not meant to be with who I
feel is the love of my life, then I need to stop talking to him and move on so I
can be with someone that loves me and makes me happy. I haven't had that in 30
years and I deserve it after all I have been through.

saihelp :

yes you deserve

saihelp :

and believe you will get now

saihelp :

after all god is there

saihelp :

think for once why then you both met after a long time

saihelp :

there must be something god has done

Customer:

So I wait until November to see if he leaves her to be with me. I guess I have
waited 2 years so another 6 months is ok. I KNOW that he was brought back into
my life 2 weeks after I told my husband of 23 years I wanted a divorce so Glenn
and I could have a second chance. We have both admitted that we were the one
passionate love in each other's lives and that we were connected, soulmates. But
other than threatening to leave her, he has never given me any indication that
he would to be with me. I KNOW we belong together but I don't feel that he has
the courage to make the chnages necessary for us to be together. He is worried
what other people might think of him and of course about the money involved if
he divorces her.

saihelp :

overall you will be having a nice person with you till next year,most probably
he will be with you,in case although the chances are less it is not he, then
there must t

Customer:

And I do know he cares about her - maybe loves her but is not in love with her

Customer:

He said the 2 people he would never want to hurt is her and me

saihelp :

yes,

saihelp :

because he is soft hearted person

saihelp :

he can never make others unhappy

saihelp :

so wait for him till november ,i hope he can be with you ,

saihelp :

do you have more queries,

saihelp :

wait till november,otherwise move on,you will get a decent one definitely

Customer:

Sorry I did respond before I realized you disconnected. I said:

Customer:

So I wait until November to see if he leaves her to be with me. I guess I have
waited 2 years so another 6 months is ok. I KNOW that he was brought back into
my life 2 weeks after I told my husband of 23 years I wanted a divorce so Glenn
and I could have a second chance. We have both admitted that we were the one
passionate love in each other's lives and that we were connected, soulmates. But
other than threatening to leave her, he has never given me any indication that
he would to be with me. I KNOW we belong together but I don't feel that he has
the courage to make the chnages necessary for us to be together. He is worried
what other people might think of him and of course about the money involved if
he divorces her.

9:59 AM

And I do know he cares about her - maybe loves her but is not in love with her

9:59 AM

He said the 2 people he would never want to hurt is her and me

saihelp :

70 percent chances are you will get him back , no she has lost his love now

saihelp :

because of her own ways

saihelp :

he does not seems in love with her any more

saihelp :

he is living with her only because of complusions only

Customer:

Thank you. I apologize for pulling you back in. Thank you for your patience. I
just am at my wit's end and frustrated.

saihelp :

no need to say sorry, i can understand your feelings

Customer:

Have a good weekend and thanks again...

saihelp :

same to you

saihelp :

thanks, XXXXX XXXXX

saihelp :

take care

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Customer:

Ok thank you!

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