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12/21/2011
Sally, Consultant
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Experience: Hi - Im 50 and have lived to the full so have had many experiences that will be able to help you.
VerifiedHi - sorry for the delay - its a bit awkward sometimes with the time difference. I did read your message and i should have said im feeling a bit tired tonight and dont want to read for you until the morning just in case im not tuning in properly but i thought i might feel better in an hour then i forgot :-(
Soooo ive been thinking about the money stuff .... i guess it will all be yours one day anyway? I dont feel that what you are doing is wrong actually it does feel ok to me. I do feel that the simplest way to deal with your dads situation so that he is safe and looked after for the rest of his days is if all the money was transferred to you but is that possible? If you would like to ask the question as a follow up here then im happy to see what the cards say and give any advice thats given.
So to Elvin ......
I have to be honest so what im going to say is not very positive im afraid. I get that yes there could be something between the two of you but that Elvin would never commit. He is in your present but only as a thought or an idea and he is galloping into your past as we speak (or i type and you read ha ha). I do feel that he will pop up every now and then to taunt you but that if you wanted any more from this you would be barking at the moon. Meaning that its just wishful thinking and that as it is its a nice thought to get you away from the situation you are in now but in reality you know its not going to happen or indeed work if you two were to get together. You would be better off fantasizing about a holiday on St Lucia to lift you out of the gloom you sometimes find yourself in. This man is not a knight in shining armour - he is a flash in the pan.
Im going to be more open with you than i normally would in readings but i do feel that there was a great connection between the two of you, that it went both ways but is was more sexual chemistry than anything else. Im wondering if thats what is missing in your life and why it crosses your mind that life with Elvin would have been / could be more exciting/better etc etc etc. I promise you it wouldnt be - the card i got for the question which represents Elvin (Knight of Wands) is my least favorite Court Card. This man is all show and no do. Hes flashy and energetic but has no staying power and always always comes up in readings when the man is no good for the person im reading for. Im not saying hes not a good man, im sure he is but he cant be trusted when it comes to relationships.
I hope you arent too disappointed - i have a feeling that you know all im saying anyway and you were just checking?
Have a great day!!
Saxi
Soooo ive been thinking about the money stuff .... i guess it will all be yours one day anyway? I dont feel that what you are doing is wrong actually it does feel ok to me. I do feel that the simplest way to deal with your dads situation so that he is safe and looked after for the rest of his days is if all the money was transferred to you but is that possible? If you would like to ask the question as a follow up here then im happy to see what the cards say and give any advice thats given.
So to Elvin ......
I have to be honest so what im going to say is not very positive im afraid. I get that yes there could be something between the two of you but that Elvin would never commit. He is in your present but only as a thought or an idea and he is galloping into your past as we speak (or i type and you read ha ha). I do feel that he will pop up every now and then to taunt you but that if you wanted any more from this you would be barking at the moon. Meaning that its just wishful thinking and that as it is its a nice thought to get you away from the situation you are in now but in reality you know its not going to happen or indeed work if you two were to get together. You would be better off fantasizing about a holiday on St Lucia to lift you out of the gloom you sometimes find yourself in. This man is not a knight in shining armour - he is a flash in the pan.
Im going to be more open with you than i normally would in readings but i do feel that there was a great connection between the two of you, that it went both ways but is was more sexual chemistry than anything else. Im wondering if thats what is missing in your life and why it crosses your mind that life with Elvin would have been / could be more exciting/better etc etc etc. I promise you it wouldnt be - the card i got for the question which represents Elvin (Knight of Wands) is my least favorite Court Card. This man is all show and no do. Hes flashy and energetic but has no staying power and always always comes up in readings when the man is no good for the person im reading for. Im not saying hes not a good man, im sure he is but he cant be trusted when it comes to relationships.
I hope you arent too disappointed - i have a feeling that you know all im saying anyway and you were just checking?
Have a great day!!
Saxi
Hi im glad i got it right about Elvin - its sometimes difficult to say things like that because often women like to have a more romantic than realistic point of view of the men who are around them and wont accept what the reader is saying as the truth because its not what they want to hear. You have a very open and honest way about you that i really like.
I feel that the way forward with this is that the next time Dad has a good day and can take things in and make a decision you ask him where he would like to end up. Its his life and he really needs to be in control of it. Its like i was saying before about him feeling that he doesn't have control over his life so threatens to take back the only bit of control he feels he could have - the money. If he wants to end up in a home then i dont think there is anything you can do about this but i would be shocked if he did. Ive never personally known anyone who chose to leave their home and be taken to a strange place to end their days although i have heard that people do that so as to not be a burden to their children. Obviously if you hadn't talked to him about it and he ended up so ill that you couldn't cope then it may have had to happen (and may still have to) but there needs to be a care plan (in writing) put in place for him so that everyone knows exactly what everyone else wants and expects.
Once you know exactly what he wants then thats probably the time to get the money sorted out and transferred into your name but im pretty sure that its not that simple - its certainly not over here - we have inheritance tax and theres a lot of rules and regulations about what money can be transferred and cant because of people trying to get out of paying the tax. im sure a lawyer can advise you on the best way forward for all of you. There may be some sort of inheritance expert on here (Just Answer) who you could talk to about it.
So lets see what the cards say about it all. Well i got the 10 of Cups!! You wont know why im excited by this card until i tell you but its because its the happy family card, peace of mind the end of a struggle. All things that tell of a very happy conclusion of this situation for you. Talk to Dad if you can and come up with a care plan for him. He could go on being ok to live in the house on his own for another 10 years but he could need full time care in 6 months so it needs to be worked out now rather than later. My neighbors 100 year old mum had to go into a care home 2 years ago after being looked after in her own home for 25 years. Their mums house is between mine and theirs and they are now having to sell her house to pay for the care. Everyone thought she only had a month or two left when she moved to the home now two years later she has just had her telegram from the Queen congratulating her on her 100th birthday and she still seems to be going strong. She always wanted her grandson to have the house and the money but there is now nothing left so i dont want you to be in that position.
I feel that the way forward with this is that the next time Dad has a good day and can take things in and make a decision you ask him where he would like to end up. Its his life and he really needs to be in control of it. Its like i was saying before about him feeling that he doesn't have control over his life so threatens to take back the only bit of control he feels he could have - the money. If he wants to end up in a home then i dont think there is anything you can do about this but i would be shocked if he did. Ive never personally known anyone who chose to leave their home and be taken to a strange place to end their days although i have heard that people do that so as to not be a burden to their children. Obviously if you hadn't talked to him about it and he ended up so ill that you couldn't cope then it may have had to happen (and may still have to) but there needs to be a care plan (in writing) put in place for him so that everyone knows exactly what everyone else wants and expects.
Once you know exactly what he wants then thats probably the time to get the money sorted out and transferred into your name but im pretty sure that its not that simple - its certainly not over here - we have inheritance tax and theres a lot of rules and regulations about what money can be transferred and cant because of people trying to get out of paying the tax. im sure a lawyer can advise you on the best way forward for all of you. There may be some sort of inheritance expert on here (Just Answer) who you could talk to about it.
So lets see what the cards say about it all. Well i got the 10 of Cups!! You wont know why im excited by this card until i tell you but its because its the happy family card, peace of mind the end of a struggle. All things that tell of a very happy conclusion of this situation for you. Talk to Dad if you can and come up with a care plan for him. He could go on being ok to live in the house on his own for another 10 years but he could need full time care in 6 months so it needs to be worked out now rather than later. My neighbors 100 year old mum had to go into a care home 2 years ago after being looked after in her own home for 25 years. Their mums house is between mine and theirs and they are now having to sell her house to pay for the care. Everyone thought she only had a month or two left when she moved to the home now two years later she has just had her telegram from the Queen congratulating her on her 100th birthday and she still seems to be going strong. She always wanted her grandson to have the house and the money but there is now nothing left so i dont want you to be in that position.
Sally, Consultant
Category: General
Satisfied Customers: 332
Experience: Hi - Im 50 and have lived to the full so have had many experiences that will be able to help you.
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